More on Unconditionality!!

..."you can never really have anything that you are not prepared not to have" comes up a lot for me these days.It is a great benchmark statement as a template for being unconditional in my life.It is the difference between being complete in myself or hanging on to the fragments(or shards) of co-dependency.When I am complete in myself I can serve without condition.When I truly love myself I can love another without need of reciprocity.All the circumstances in my life at this moment serve that great goal!!